Ghandia/Ted Drama Begins

Back to Team Church Social. Ghandia says to the cameras, “I feel a little tired because I didn’t get a lot of sleep last night. I just feel kind of depressed and I feel… I feel used.” Blah blah… “last night, he threw his arm over me and pulled me close to him, which was kind of OK with me in the beginning, but uhmm… he started to like, really become very sexual. I mean, specifically, he was grinding against me. And he didn’t stop and he kept trying to, in my opinion, try to engage me.” “I, of course, didn’t think to tell him to stop or at least say that this makes me a little uncomfortable. Instead, I’ll just tense up and hope that he’s psychic.”

She went on to mention how he just had a baby and that he should respect her as a married woman. She later confronts Ted and they seem to have an adult conversation about the incident. Here is the exact word-for-word exchange:

Ghandia said, “You were up on me last night, tough…”

Ted explains, “That’s just… that’s like… You know what I do? Sometimes when I’m sleeping, you know, it’s like in the middle of the night I’m not, like, totally clear. I’m thinking I’m sleeping with my wife.

So, I think what we need to do is I’m not going to hug you. I’m not going to hold you because I keep on forgetting that I’m not in bed with my wife.”

“Right, but… so it was really compromising for me and I just feel like trash today.”

“Don’t because, I mean when I do that I’m not thinking. I’m not, like, in my total mind trying to, like, start something with you. And I apologize if I offended you. I mean, it wasn’t done maliciously. It wasn’t done trying to start something or anything like that. Please, from the bottom of my heart, I do apologize.”